銆?/p>
MeiWei_81
閲嶇偣鍊熼壌鏂囨。銆?/p>
銆?/p>
MeiWei_81
閲嶇偣鍊熼壌鏂囨。銆?/p>
涓�銆?/p>
AWorkingCommunitR
5
銆?/p>
Noneofus,mindRou,wasbornintothesecommunities.Nordidwemoveintothem,U-Haulingourpossessionsalongwithus.Nonehaspaperstoprovewearecard-
carrRingmembersofonesuchgrouporanother.RetitseemsthatmoreandmoreofusareidentifiedbRworkthesedaRs,ratherthanbRstreet.
鍊煎緱涓�鎻愮殑鏄紝
鎴戜滑
娌℃湁璋佷竴鍑虹敓灏卞睘浜庤繖浜涚ぞ鍖猴紝涔熶笉鏄悗鏉ユ垜浠惉浜嗚繘鏉ャ�傝繖浜涜韩浠芥槸鎴戜滑闅忚韩鎼哄甫鐨勶紝娌℃湁浜哄彲浠ユ嬁鍑烘枃浠惰瘉鏄庢垜浠槸杩欎釜鎴栭偅涓兢浣?/p>
鐨勪細鍛樺崱鎸佹湁鑰呫�傜劧鑰岋紝涓嶇煡涓嶈涓汉浠殑韬唤鏇村�惧悜浜庡悇鑷墍浠庝簨鐨勫伐浣滐紝鑰屼笉鏄儚浠ュ線涓�鏍风敱瀹跺涵浣忓潃鏉ョ晫瀹氥�?/p>
6
銆?/p>
Inthepast,mostAmericansliveinneighborhoods.Weweremembersofprecinctsorparishesorschooldistricts.MRdictionarRstilldefinescommuntiR,firstofall
ingeographicterms,as
鈥渁
bodRofpeoplewholiveinone
place.鈥?/p>
杩囧幓澶у鏁板郊閭昏�屽眳鐨勭編鍥戒汉褰兼鏄悓涓�涓鍖恒�?/p>
鏁欏尯銆?/p>
鏍″尯鐨勬垚鍛樸�?/p>
浠婂ぉ鐨勮瘝鍏镐緷
鐒堕鍏堜粠鍦扮悊鐨勮搴︽潵瀹氫箟绀惧尯锛岀О涔嬩负
鈥?/p>
涓�涓敱灞呬綇鍦ㄥ悓涓�鍦版柟鐨勪汉缁勬垚鐨勭兢浣?/p>
鈥?/p>
銆?/p>
7
銆?/p>
ButtodaRfewerofusdoourlivinginthatoneplace;moreofusjustuseitforsleeping.Nowwecallourtowns
鈥渂edroomsuburbs,鈥?/p>
andmanRofus,withoutsmallchild
renasicebreakers,wouldhavetroublenamingallthepeopleonourstreet.
鐒惰�岋紝濡備粖鐨勬儏鍐垫槸灞呬綇鍜屽伐浣滈兘鍦ㄥ悓涓�涓湴鏂圭殑浜烘瀬灏戯紝瀵规洿澶氱殑浜烘潵璇?/p>
瀹舵垚浜嗕竴涓粎浠呯敤鏉ョ潯瑙夌殑鍦版柟銆傛垜浠殑灞呬綇鍦拌鍙仛
鈥?/p>
杩戦儕灞呬綇鍖?/p>
鈥?/p>
锛岀敱浜庢病鏈変簡瀛╁瓙鍍忚繃鍘婚偅鏍疯捣鍒版矡閫氶偦閲屽叧绯荤殑浣滅敤锛岃澶氫汉鎰熷埌
瑕佸彨鍑鸿窡鎴戜滑鍚屼綇涓�鏉¤鐨勬墍鏈変汉鐨勫悕瀛楁槸浠舵瀬涓嶅鏄撶殑浜嬨�?/p>
8
銆?/p>
It鈥檚
notthatwearemoreisolatedtodaR.
It鈥檚
thatmanRofushavetransferredachunkofourfriendships,amajorportionofoureverRdaRsociallives,fromhometooffi
ce.AsmoreofourneighborsworkawaRfromhome,theworkplacebecomesourneighborhood.
杩欎笉鏄鎴戜滑浠婂ぉ琚垎寰楁洿寮�浜嗭紝
鑰屾槸濂藉浜哄凡缁忛儴鍒嗙殑
鍙嬭皧鍜屽ぇ閮ㄥ垎鐨勬棩甯哥ぞ浜ょ敓娲讳粠瀹堕噷杞Щ鍒颁簡鍔炴枃瀹ゃ�傞殢鐫�瓒婃潵瓒婂鐨勪汉璧板嚭瀹堕棬鍘诲伐浣滐紝宸ヤ綔鐨勫湴鏂瑰氨鍙樻垚浜嗘垜浠殑琛楀尯銆?/p>
9
銆?/p>
Thekaffeeklatschofthefiftiesisthecoffeebreakoftheeighties.Thewatercooler,thehall,theelevator,andtheparkinglotarethebackfencesoftheseneighborhood
s.ThepeoplewehavelunchwithdaRafterdaRarethosewhoknowtherunningsagaofour
mother鈥檚
operations,our
child鈥檚
mathgrades,ourfrozenpipes,andfaultRt
ransmissions.50
骞翠唬鐨勪笅鍗堣尪鎴愪簡
80
骞翠唬鐨勫枬鍜栧暋鐨勫伐闂翠紤鎭�傚伐浣滃湴鐨勯ギ姘村喎鍗存満銆佸ぇ鍘呫�佺數姊�佸仠杞﹀満鏄柊绀惧尯鐨勫悗闄㈢绗嗗銆傚ぉ澶?/p>
鍜屾垜浠叡杩涘崍椁愮殑浜烘槸缁欐垜浠殑姣嶄翰鍔ㄦ墜鏈殑鍖荤敓銆佸瀛愮殑鏁板鑰佸笀銆佺閬撳伐銆佹苯杞︿慨鐞嗗伐绛夈�?/p>
10
銆?/p>
WemaRbestrangersatthesupermarketthatreplacedthecornergrocer,butweareknownatthecoffeeshopinthelobbR.Wesharewitheachotheracastofcharactersf
romthebossinthecornerofficetothecrazRladRinShipping,totheloversinMarketing.
It鈥檚
notsurprisingthatwhenresearchersaskAmericanswhattheRlikebesta
boutwork,theRsaRitis
鈥渢he
shmoose
factor.鈥?/p>
WhentheRaskRoungmothersathomewhattheRmissmostaboutwork,itisthepeople.
浜轰滑鏇剧粡鍦ㄦ潅璐у簵鐨勮秴甯?/p>
閲屽彲鑳芥槸闄岀敓浜猴紝浣嗘槸鍗存瀬鍙兘鍦ㄥ叕鍙稿ぇ鍘呯殑鍜栧暋闂撮噷鐩歌瘑銆傛垜浠皥璁轰竴浜涗汉鐗╋紝浠庤澶村姙鏂囧鐨勮�佹澘锛屽埌杩愯緭閮ㄤ腑鐨勭柉濂充汉锛屽埌钀ラ攢閮?/p>
鐨勬儏浜轰滑銆傞毦鎬綋鐮旂┒鑰呴棶鍙婄編鍥戒汉鍏充簬宸ヤ綔浠栦滑鏈�鍠滄浠�涔堢殑鏃跺�欙紝浠栦滑鐨勫洖绛旀槸
鈥?/p>
鍜屽悓浜嬫偁闂茶嚜鍦ㄥ湴闂叉壇
鈥?/p>
锛屽綋璇㈤棶鍦ㄥ閲屽仛鍏ㄨ亴姣嶄翰
鐨勫勾杞诲濂冲宸ヤ綔鏈�鎬�蹇典粈涔堟椂锛屽ス浠鏄伐浣滀腑鎵�鎺ヨЕ杩囩殑浜恒�?/p>
11
銆?/p>
NotalltheneighborhoodsareemptR,noriseverRworkplaceafriendlRplaRground.MostofushavehadmiRedeRperiencesintheseenvironments.Retasonewo
mantoldmerecentlR,sheknowsmoreaboutthepeopleshepassesonthewaRtoherdeskthanonherwaRaroundtheblock.OurnewsenseofcommunitR
hasn鈥檛
just
movedfromhousetoofficebuilding.Thelabelsthatwewearconnectuswithmembersfromdistantcompanies,cities,andstates.Weassumethatwehavesomethin
g
鈥渋ncommon鈥?/p>
withotherteachers,nurses,citRplanners.
涓嶆槸鎵�鏈夌殑浣忓畢鍖洪兘鏄┖鐨勶紝
涔熶笉鏄墍鏈夌殑宸ヤ綔鍗曚綅閮芥槸鍙嬪ソ鐨勩�?/p>
澶氭暟浜哄湪杩欎簺鐜閲岄兘
鏇炬湁杩囧鏉傜殑缁忓巻銆傜劧鑰岋紝鏈�杩戜竴浣嶅コ鎬ф湅鍙嬪憡璇夋垜濂瑰宸ヤ綔鍗曚綅閲岀殑浜虹殑浜嗚В绋嬪害瑕佽儨浜庡鍚屼竴琛楀尯浜虹殑浜嗚В绋嬪害銆傛垜浠笉浠呮妸绀惧尯鐨?/p>
姒傚康浠庝綇瀹呭尯鎼繘浜嗗姙鍏ゼ锛屼笂鐝椂韬笂鎵�浣╂埓鐨勬爣蹇椾篃鎶婃垜浠拰寮傚浗浠栦埂鐨勪汉浠拰鍏徃鍛樺伐鑱旂郴鍦ㄤ竴璧枫�傛垜浠亣璁捐嚜宸卞拰鍏朵粬鐨勬暀甯堛�?/p>
鎶ゅ＋銆佸煄甯傝鍒掕�呮湁鐫�鏌愪簺鍏卞悓鐐广�?/p>
12
銆?/p>
It鈥檚
notunliketheeRperienceofourimmigrantgrandparents.ManRwhocametothiscountrRstillidentifiedthemselvesasmembersoftheItaliancommunitR,theI
rishcommuntiR,thePolishcommunitR.TheRsoughtoutandassumesconnectionwithpeoplefromtheoldcountrR,ManRofushaveupdatedthateRperience.We
havereplacedethnicidentitRwithprofessionalidentitR,thewaRwereplacedneighborhoodwiththeworkplace.ThiswholerealignmentofcommunitRissurelR
mostobviousamongthemobileprofessions.PeoplewhomovefromcitRtocitRseemtoputrootsintotheirprofessions.Inanageofspecialists,theRmaRhavetosea
rchhardertofindpeoplewhospeakthesamelanguage.
杩欐湁鐐瑰儚鏈�鍒濈Щ姘戞潵鍒扮編鍥界殑鎴戜滑鐨勭杈堜滑鐨勭粡鍘嗭紝
璁稿浜烘潵鍒拌繖閲屽悗鎶婅嚜宸卞師鏉ョ殑鍥界睄褰?/p>
鎴愪竴涓ぞ鍖猴紝鎵�浠ユ湁鎰忓ぇ鍒╀汉绀惧尯銆佺埍灏斿叞浜虹ぞ鍖恒�佹尝鍏扮ぞ鍖虹瓑銆備粬浠笉鏂鎵惧苟璁炬兂鑷繁涓庢潵鑷悓涓�涓浗瀹剁殑浜轰滑鏈夌潃浜插瘑鐨勮仈绯汇�傛垜
浠妸杩欑浣撻獙鎻愬崌浜嗕竴姝ャ�傚儚鐢ㄥ伐浣滃崟浣嶅彇浠ｅ眳浣忓湴涓�鏍凤紝鎴戜滑鐢ㄤ笓涓氳韩浠藉彇浠ｄ簡绉嶆棌韬唤銆傝繖绉嶇ぞ鍖虹殑瀹屽叏閲嶇粍鍦ㄦ祦鍔ㄤ綔涓氱殑琛屼笟涓〃
鐜板緱鏈�涓烘槑鏄撅紝閭ｄ簺鍦ㄤ笉鍚屽煄甯傚彉鎹㈠伐浣滅殑浜轰技涔庢妸鑷繁鐨勮韩浠芥鏍逛簬浠栦滑鐨勮涓氫腑銆傚湪杩欎釜鍏呮弧涓撲笟浜哄＋鐨勬椂浠ｏ紝浠栦滑涓嶅緱涓嶈垂灏藉懆鎶?/p>
鍘诲鎵炬湁鍏卞悓璇█鐨勪汉銆?/p>
13
銆?/p>
I
don鈥檛
thinkthatthereisanRthingmassivelRdisruptiveaboutthisshiftingsenseofcommunitR.ThecontinuingsearchforconnectionandsharedenterpriseisverR
human.ButIdofeeluncomfortablewithourshiftingidentitR.Thebalancehastipped,andweseemincreasinglRdependentonworkforoursenseofself.
鎴戝苟涓嶈
涓鸿繖绉嶇ぞ鍖烘蹇电殑鍙樿縼浼氶�犳垚澶ч潰绉殑娣蜂贡锛岃繖绉嶅鑱旂郴鍜屽叡鍚岀悊鎯崇殑涓嶆柇杩藉鍏呮弧浜嗕汉鎬с�備絾鎴戝鎴戜滑涓嶆柇鍙樺寲鐨勮韩浠界‘瀹炴劅鍒颁笉瀹夈�?/p>
韬唤鎰忚瘑鐨勫ぉ骞充技涔庡凡缁忔棩娓愬�炬枩鍒板伐浣滃喅瀹氳韩浠借繖杈广�?/p>
14
銆?/p>
Ifourofficeareournewneighborhoods,ifourprofessionaltitlesareournewethnictags,thenhowdoweseparateourselvesfromourjobs?Selfworth
isn鈥檛
justsomet
hingtomeasureinthemarketplace.Butinthesenewcommunities,itbecomeshardertotellwhowearewithoutsaRingwhatwedo.
濡傛灉鍔炲叕瀹ょ湡鐨勫交搴曞彉鎴愭垜
浠殑绀惧尯锛屽鏋滄垜浠殑鎵�浠庝簨鐨勮涓氱湡鐨勫交搴曞彉鎴愭垜浠殑绉嶆棌鍗拌锛岄偅鎴戜滑鎬庢牱鎵嶈兘鎶婅嚜宸卞拰宸ヤ綔鍖哄垎寮�鏉ュ憿锛熻嚜鎴戜环鍊煎苟涓嶆槸鍙湁鍦ㄥ競
鍦虹幆澧冧腑寰楀埌浣撶幇鐨勩�備絾鏄湪杩欎簺鏂扮殑绀惧尯涓紝濡傛灉涓嶅厛璇存槑鎴戜滑鏄粠浜嬪摢琛屽摢涓氱殑锛屽氨瓒婃潵瓒婇毦浠ヨ娓呮鎴戜滑绌剁珶鏄皝銆?/p>
浜屻�?/p>
TheRootsOfMRAmbition
1
銆?/p>
鈥淚fthere鈥檚
onethingIcan
鈥檛
stand,Russell,
it鈥檚
a
quitter.鈥?/p>
缃楃礌锛屽亣濡傛湁涓�浠朵簨鎴戜笉鑳藉蹇嶇殑璇濓紝閭ｅ氨鏄仛杞绘槗鏀惧純鐨勪汉銆?/p>
2
銆?