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Question: I started a new job in August, and for the most part I really like it here.
The thing is, I report to someone who yells when he's under pressure (which is most
of the time). He's not being abusive or insulting, he's just extremely emotional and
loud.
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I'm not used to this, and it leaves me dumbstruck. I can't concentrate well enough
to
answer
intelligently
when
someone
is
hollering
at
me.
The
only
other
person
who
reports
to
this
manager,
and
who
has
been
here
a
long
time,
responds
by
saying,
"Call
me
when
you've
calmed
down
and
we'll
talk,"
and
then
leaves
the
room. I don't quite have the nerve to do that, and I don't want to yell back, so can
you suggest some other ways to handle this?
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绮惧姏锛?/p>
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